10保罗说,“因为我们这活着的人,是常为耶稣被交于死。”(林后四11)一天过一天,妻子和丈夫彼此把对方交于死。虽然你们的蜜月或许很甜美,我确信它没有持续很久。……似乎蜜月时常变成了“醋月”。……在蜜月的头几天你可以说,“亲爱的,我爱你。”但是过了那几天以后,你似乎要说,“我要把你钉在十字架上,置你于死。”这种钉死不是一次而永远的,乃是继续不断的。我的妻子已经钉死我许多次。什么时候我想这次钉死要一次而永远地过去了,但几天以后我又再一次被钉。这就是经历成为肉体和钉十字架的耶稣。当我们经历耶稣作受限制的一位,以及被钉死的一位时,祂就像小麦一样在我们里面长大(李常受文集一九七七年第一册,二九三至二九四页)。 10Paul said, “We who are alive are always being delivered unto death for Jesus’ sake” (2 Cor. 4:11). Day after day the wives and the husbands deliver one another to death. Although your honeymoon may have been very sweet, I am sure that it did not last very long…It seems that the honeymoon often becomes a “vinegar-moon.”…During the first few days of your honeymoon you may say, “Dear, I love you.” But after those days you will feel like saying, “I will nail you to the cross and put you to death.” This kind of crucifixion does not take place once for all; it is continual. My wife has crucified me many times. Whenever I think that this crucifixion will be over once and for all, I am crucified again a few days later. This is the experience of the incarnated and crucified Jesus. When we experience Jesus as the limited One and as the crucified One, He grows in us as wheat. (CWWL, 1977, vol. 1, “The Kernel of the Bible,” pp. 220-221)