17主婚人可以向…一对新人说,“你是亲爱的新妇,你是亲爱的新郎么?”新郎应当说,“不,我不是。基督才是。”新妇应当说,“…我又丑陋又可怜,我不美丽。基督才是荣美的一位。我不是新妇,祂才是。”这就是信徒。…当你像保罗一样说,“不再是我,乃是基督,”你就是信神是。信神是,是很深的。这含示你看见你不是,祂才是。“你不是”的意思是说,你不存在。这就是圣经所说否认己的意思。当一个姊妹要结婚的时候,…她不该觉得自己是最美最好的一位。如果她这样觉得,她的婚姻就完了。那不是一个信徒的婚姻。一个将要结婚的信徒应当说,“主啊,我将要嫁给这个人。主,你知道我什么也不是。我不能作好妻子。主,我什么也不是。”…这是在凡事上否认己的福。
17The person marrying a couple could say to them, “Are you the dear bride, and are you the dear bridegroom?” The bridegroom should say, “No. I am not. But Christ is.” The bride should say, “… I am so ugly and poor. I am not pretty. Christ is the beautiful One. I am not the bride, but He is.” This is a believer. When you say what Paul said, “It’s no longer I, but Christ,” you believe that God is. To believe that God is, is so deep. It implies that you realize that you are not, but He is. You are not means that you do not exist. This is what the Bible means when it says to deny yourself. When a sister is about to be married, she… should not feel that she is the most beautiful and wonderful one. If she does, her marriage will be finished. That is not a believer’s marriage. A believer who is about to be married should say, “Lord, I am going to marry this man. Lord, You know I am nothing. I cannot be the proper wife. I am nothing, Lord.”… This is the blessing of denying yourself in everything.